Up until fairly recently I also thought that it’s more important to be the best a man can be; a masculine role model of desire for women.

And, yes while that is important to have value to continue offering women, it’s not the most important thing initially (or at least in a physical relationship).

Many men will think that being more ‘macho’ will help them ‘get chicks’. Others think that having a nice car and throwing around money on expensive dinners will get them faster in the sack.

Yet this whole time, not only are they being ineffective in many ways, they’re still ignorant to women.

If men could understand women, they would have the cutting edge on how to (respectfully) seduce them.

We’re conditioned to be ignorant to the truth of women because their truth is behaviorally repressed. That’s why we all have problems with them and in forming new relationships.

But if you could see it and knew what her true sexuality was, you’d be way ahead of any competition despite your other weaknesses.

Why? Because it’s really about a woman and I don’t mean her inner or social development. I mean it’s about the one thing you couldn’t see yet.

And I’m not talking about maxi-pad’s, shopping, menstrual cycles or ANY of that. It’s up to a man alone to bring the secret of a woman out. Those are the men who end up sleeping with them.

Those are the men they let in.

Oh, you mean to be like a gay guy or metrosexual then? Nope.

You can be yourself and masculine AS YOU ARE and still succeed with women. They’re looking for men who aren’t afraid of them, who have the ability to raise their attraction response.

You don’t have to be an ‘alpha’ Stallone model of masculinity.

If we all had to be at that level, it wouldn’t be biological..everyone is born with the instinct to reproduce and find a mate (or more than one).

Sure their gay guy friends are able to talk to them about issues but it’s a guy like you who can fulfill her desires when you know the ’secret to women’.

So it’s not just about being the ‘best’ guy you can be (I improved myself over a decade and it didn’t have any direct effect on new relationships).

It’s about relational dynamics and having a grounded, proper model of female sexuality instead of the backwards ones we have now.

Yes, we’re missing a lot of male role models now in our mainstream media. It’s up to men to just kind of take that role themselves and ‘be’ the man that women want.

I’ve turned off the t.v. for the most part. I have a tremendous amount of power around other power. I see it for what it is and can immediately tell what kind of message or relationship
it’s trying to force me into.

I hope other men can stop being programmed into becoming more of a wuss, instead that they can take some time to step back and get real answers as I have found.

Answers of power and hope. It’s great to always be more of a man, but at the same time, understand women, their behavior and your relationship to all of it and your success with compound dramatically from where you used to be.

Go Alpha and cultivate cognition of TRUE female sexuality! I show you on my website.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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By Christine McKellar

We are living in the age of the metrosexual male. A metrosexual male is one who strives to be the most perfectly manicured, coifed, toned, tanned, plucked, waxed and well-dressed human of the masculine gender who is absolutely and unequivocally not gay or guilty of any homosexual tendencies whatsoever.

There is so much gender blending going on these days that I am inclined to finally take a stand and publicly declare myself a “femasexual.” A femasexual is a millennium woman who has survived Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, Janet Jackson, and gay marriage licensing, only to find herself in competition with just about the only class of men left who can date and mate: the metrosexual.

As an outed femasexual, I am ready to step on some pedicure-perfect, metrosexual tootsies. Before I do, let me state that I like men who take care of themselves. But between men and women there are some lines that shouldn’t be crossed — and dudes getting their brows waxed, shaped and arched is one of them. A manicure with colored polish is another.

It’s an insult to a femasexual when a metrosexual has skin that is smoother, more toned and more polished than her own. Also, any hint of enhanced coloring on the cheeks, lips and eyes of a metrosexual is enough to drive a femasexual into a complete frenzy.

Metrosexuals are crowding us femasexuals out of our beauty spas and salons. We not only have to vie for top-level positions in the workplace — for which we are still underpaid compared to our counterparts — we now have to vie for hair, skin and nail appointments.

And, adding insult to injury, metrosexuals are known to be better tippers than femasexuals.

Metrosexuals love to shop for the latest designer shoes, clothes and carryalls to complement their hair, face, bodies and their hottie car. They also like to dabble in gourmet cooking and wine-tasting. What could be more adorable than a porcelain-skinned and pouty-collagen-enhanced metrosexual in a designer apron stirring a pot of bouillabaisse in the kitchen?

On the flip side, in television ads you don’t see a metrosexual raising his perfectly manicured hands (and brows) in delight over the wonders of the latest toilet bowl scrubber. And a metrosexual wouldn’t be caught dead at a Super Wal-Mart with a shopping cart full of cleaning supplies, paper towels or Pampers.

The femasexual, on the other hand, does all of the above and then some. Gamely, she manages to fit her salon appointments in between the mundane activities of everyday life. So when a femasexual seeking a mate discovers that his cosmetic priorities outweigh her own, there is bound to be some friction. She may find the metrosexual’s total self-absorption a turnoff. And what is the point of the countless nicks on her shins, when she goes to rub her freshly shaved, silky smooth leg across the equally shaved and silky smooth leg of her bedfellow?

There really is no future, I fear, for the femasexual. Not only is she being overshadowed by the metrosexual male, she is being put out to pasture by gay men who can hire sperm donors, get married and get benefits. Skip the cramps, the tampons and other female products; we may as well have our uteruses cut out and flash-frozen for future generations.

A long time resident of Las Vegas, I’m also the author of three fictions novels, a short crime fiction story (Las Vegas Noir Anthology), and a short sci-fi story, Mothology. I’m a columnist and a contributor for Las Vegas Woman Magazine, as well as the book review and arts editor. I have a background in marketing and advertising.

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