What is sex addiction?
Experts conclude that sex addiction is a sexual activity which is then uncontrolled. Sex addiction forces the ‘addicts’ to constantly search for opportunities and to be capable of having sexual intercourse every time, which can influence their personalities, social relations and work settings.

For sex addicts, this can result in disasters for themselves, let alone, if it is not balanced with mature thinking. The problem is that in general sex addicts feel there is nothing wrong with themselves. A smart reason is even very often uttered from the sex addicts when they are asked about the reason why sex is above everything.

Sex addiction can be in many forms; still in general it is in the form of being out of control. They can be as follows:
Excessive liking for pornography-smelling things
Exhibitionism and the like
Too frequent masturbation
Fond of calling or internet sex
Having affairs with many people
High – risk sex

Sex can be a’ dependence’ alike to your dependence on alcohol and other strong drinks. In the course of having sexual intercourse, our body produces a chemical reaction that makes us tranquilized and calm.

Few people become addicted to this special quality of chemical reaction and obsessed to always procure much higher sex sensation. And the body gets so accustomed to this chemical reaction that the addicts always try to maintain their sexual activities so that they can obtain this customary condition.

The difference between sex addicts and sex devotees is that sex addicts are very often indifferent to the fact that they are in danger when wishing to do their sexual actions. The sex devotees can still think positively and withdraws if their sexual actions will bring about dangers or shame, either for themselves or their spouses whereas the sex addicts will keep going and never take heed of consequences.

In the neighborhood of two-six percent of the world’s population suffer from sex addiction. Still, in reality it can be more, considering that the sex addicts are habitually shy of confessing their self-condition and afraid of seeing doctors for assistance.

Sex addiction can fall on everybody regardless of their ages, professions and gender. Since the wide use of internet during which sex-smelling services are inexpensive and easy, experts have predicted that sex addiction sufferers keep increasing in number.

Dr. Patrick Carnes, one of the experts on sex addiction and deviation, says that there are symptoms of sex addiction that must be heeded, among others:

1. Feeling that your actions begin to be out of control
2. Tending to do destructive or high-risk sexual activities
3. Fond of having sexual fantasies to fulfill their unachieved sexual drives
4. Feeling unable to stop their odd behaviors, although they realize all the consequences
5. Always wanting excessive sexual activities, minimally the same as those they have got or even more than that.
6. Spending more time satisfying their sexual drives and all things around sexual activities.
7. Emphasizing more on sexual activities than any other needs for socialization, occupation and entertainment.
8. Always wishing to do all sex-smelling things.

How to overcome
Providing that you feel to have the above-mentioned behaviors, the first thing to realize is that sex addiction is a serious matter that will not disappear by itself. You ought to have a curative therapy.

Most sufferers have difficulties changing their own behaviors. You might be able to reduce sexual activities just for the time being, yet the cycles will be more frequent and difficult to cut off. Professionals’ therapy services can be helpful.  You comprehend what happen and strengthen your spirit to change them into healthier sexual life.

Curing sexual addiction like any other addiction depends largely on the people concerned. Supposing that they can realize their wrong doings and are willing to change them, the curing will be easier. The curing process can be a chain of therapies on sexual health, health love relations, marriage, or taking a support group program. Sometimes certain medicines such as Prozac or Anafranil are needed to curb excessive sexual drives.

Granting that your spouse suffers from sex addiction, this is your challenge to help her change her behaviors. You need to realize that nobody can get over his feeling of being addicted, except he accepts that he has problems and is determined to change. Having a sex-addicted spouse is of course very hard and bewildering; however it is not impossible to cure it. You only need to encourage him to consult with doctors.

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Work tension
Your spouse and your activities in office are one of the causes leading to fading loving passions. The reason is that you spend more than eighty hours being in office, sitting in front of computers, and having conflicts with boss. In the end, on getting home, you are physically and mentally exhausted and at the same you run out of desires to make love.

The only way to enable to you to still possess opportunities to make love is to schedule making- love activities. Supposing that you can force yourself to meet the boss, why don’t you do the same thing with your spouse. Hence, make appointment to soak together on warm water in bath-tub or to have dinner in a romantic restaurant to arouse back your desires to make love.

Knowing too much
A theory confirms that with a view to internalizing husband-wife relations, there must not be secrets between them. Yet this theory is applicable to problems of sex. Granting that your spouse has known everything about you, inclusive of your favorite styles and sensitive zones, he or she tends to get bored easily. The reason is that he or she becomes reluctant to experiment with new things owing to the fact that you dislike and simply stimulate that part only.

To surmount, you can seek out to search for other erotic zones or other alternative foreplay so that he or she becomes curious. For instance, if as usual you tease your spouse with sexy lingerie, this time you can try sporty styles with white tank top T-shirt (of course with no bra) plus his boxer pants. Ask him to explore the areas during this time he ignores such as parts behind ears, nape of neck, parts behind knees or lower part of arm. Think of something creative and pleasing.

Making a problem out of one’s self
Do you still make a problem out of your unfilled form of breasts or permanent cellulites If you keep criticizing yourself, be sure husband’s mood which is previously burning dies out all of a sudden. Never blame a husband with no understanding, however, whichever husband will stand to his spouse who is never satisfied with herself.

Granted that you realize what happen to your body, make efforts. A regular use of herbal cosmetics or of eating and doing exercises can the solution. This method not only cause physical changes but also opens insight so that you become more self-confident. Not to mention, a husband is also desirous of your fresher body and performance.

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By Christine McKellar

We are living in the age of the metrosexual male. A metrosexual male is one who strives to be the most perfectly manicured, coifed, toned, tanned, plucked, waxed and well-dressed human of the masculine gender who is absolutely and unequivocally not gay or guilty of any homosexual tendencies whatsoever.

There is so much gender blending going on these days that I am inclined to finally take a stand and publicly declare myself a “femasexual.” A femasexual is a millennium woman who has survived Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, Janet Jackson, and gay marriage licensing, only to find herself in competition with just about the only class of men left who can date and mate: the metrosexual.

As an outed femasexual, I am ready to step on some pedicure-perfect, metrosexual tootsies. Before I do, let me state that I like men who take care of themselves. But between men and women there are some lines that shouldn’t be crossed — and dudes getting their brows waxed, shaped and arched is one of them. A manicure with colored polish is another.

It’s an insult to a femasexual when a metrosexual has skin that is smoother, more toned and more polished than her own. Also, any hint of enhanced coloring on the cheeks, lips and eyes of a metrosexual is enough to drive a femasexual into a complete frenzy.

Metrosexuals are crowding us femasexuals out of our beauty spas and salons. We not only have to vie for top-level positions in the workplace — for which we are still underpaid compared to our counterparts — we now have to vie for hair, skin and nail appointments.

And, adding insult to injury, metrosexuals are known to be better tippers than femasexuals.

Metrosexuals love to shop for the latest designer shoes, clothes and carryalls to complement their hair, face, bodies and their hottie car. They also like to dabble in gourmet cooking and wine-tasting. What could be more adorable than a porcelain-skinned and pouty-collagen-enhanced metrosexual in a designer apron stirring a pot of bouillabaisse in the kitchen?

On the flip side, in television ads you don’t see a metrosexual raising his perfectly manicured hands (and brows) in delight over the wonders of the latest toilet bowl scrubber. And a metrosexual wouldn’t be caught dead at a Super Wal-Mart with a shopping cart full of cleaning supplies, paper towels or Pampers.

The femasexual, on the other hand, does all of the above and then some. Gamely, she manages to fit her salon appointments in between the mundane activities of everyday life. So when a femasexual seeking a mate discovers that his cosmetic priorities outweigh her own, there is bound to be some friction. She may find the metrosexual’s total self-absorption a turnoff. And what is the point of the countless nicks on her shins, when she goes to rub her freshly shaved, silky smooth leg across the equally shaved and silky smooth leg of her bedfellow?

There really is no future, I fear, for the femasexual. Not only is she being overshadowed by the metrosexual male, she is being put out to pasture by gay men who can hire sperm donors, get married and get benefits. Skip the cramps, the tampons and other female products; we may as well have our uteruses cut out and flash-frozen for future generations.

A long time resident of Las Vegas, I’m also the author of three fictions novels, a short crime fiction story (Las Vegas Noir Anthology), and a short sci-fi story, Mothology. I’m a columnist and a contributor for Las Vegas Woman Magazine, as well as the book review and arts editor. I have a background in marketing and advertising.

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