Today many men are wondering, ‘Why am I not attracting women into my life like I should be?’ Especially when they ARE so passionate and their energy is involved with the idea of women?

The question comes down to; WHAT are they attracting?

What ‘kind’ of relationship are they attracting?

Are they attracting what they think and believe is a woman’s sexuality?

Or are they actually attracting more of the economic game of sexploitation and pornography instead of women themselves?

In our Western society today almost no one (let alone women) has a clue to what true sexuality is anymore.

It was lost ages ago yet is still alive in different cultures.

We can look at the cause and effect influence behind all of this and realize how things have developed and changed over the years.

Sexuality is natural and biological at it’s root.

Sure there are social influences which come into play in the mating game between men and women but now things are so extreme that an average 19 year old can get a makeover and INSTANTLY be valued above millions of high quality men who have been conditioned to drool over her. This is nothing to say about the character.

Society has so corrupted and twisted ’sexuality’ to it’s own economic benefit that millions of people are lost and confused. Completely out of touch with attraction itself as sex is a commodity of social, economic exchange.

We have an unnatural society. We have a social culture that is extremely SOCIAL. And I don’t mean open inter-dependent respect social; I mean program-receiver, stimulus-response social.

The sexuality of women is their nature. It’s their biological behavior. It’s not at all society’s warped definition of femininity and definitely not sexploitation which men and women have been brainwashed and conditioned into valuing and believing to their disbenefit.

It is disheartening to see the popularity of pornstars and Vegas girls.

Millions of women have already sold out to ‘the game’ merely because it is now socially approved and desired. It takes a strong man to be equal to or above all of this power to reach through and bring out the truth that is suppressed within her.

Until men can value a woman’s nature which is not behaviorally represented in our independent or socially valued women (and somehow on earth figure out what that is), they will continue to attract NONsexual relationships.

How can a man attract women if he believes that her skin and sassy prickteasing is her sexuality?

No wonder it doesn’t work. And women know this; they know that their ’sexed’ up behavior is social at the root but they’ll never tell a man because ‘he’s supposed to know’.

So until men can build relationships with the alpha nature of women, it’s going to be difficult to attract them consistently.

Independent, logical, career-oriented behavior of women is unnatural and nonsexual. Socially approved, bleached blonde hair, boob job, prickteasing, bitchy behavior is likewise unsexual behavior.

If these Prada’s and Prickteases are the models of female behavior and sexuality, no wonder millions of men and women have problems attracting quality partners.

Women have lost touch with their nature because society literally raped them of it to it’s own economic benefit. Bratz dolls are further evidence this is occurring at a younger age.

The conditioning is invisible because it’s all these people know and are in relationship to. There is no counter-balance to check it with when millions of programming ’socially approved’ signals are coming at them daily telling them what to value and how to act.

One of the few things that can bring the suppressed sexuality (natural behavior) of women back is economic fantasy outlets (how the system was built) and a real man who is their equal who knows what their true nature/sexuality is.

The fashion and makeup industry has so deeply entrenched and pervaded their concept of ‘beauty’ into the minds of millions that it’s even become more important daily than the real thing (relationships).

Millions of women will go out every weekend for the attention and reinforced validation of their social shell instead of building real relationships (or even knowing how anymore).

The game is economic and it’s a money system that works but it’s influenced millions of men and women beyond psychological repair.

For a change of results; ask yourself what you value.

‘Do I value society’s concept of beauty and sexuality or do I value the true sexuality of women?’

The answer for millions of men and women lies in going back to nature; the root of sexuality exempt of social corruption.

That is what has always been real and that is where the real value lies beneath the crud of social influence. Deep down, we all know it.

Learning from behaviorally natural people can bring us back to our roots. Building our physiological relationship with nature is one way we can attract more of that sexuality out of each other. Some would say this equates to the natural process of seduction and love between two people instead of the commercialization of it.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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Sexuality is a broad term used to describe a complex array of feelings, beliefs, and behaviors related to how we express ourselves as erotic beings. In general, the expression of healthy sexuality has to do with the ability to exquisitely and respectfully pursue pleasure by being playful, spontaneous, and engaged. It also involves an awareness of and an ability to cultivate the sexual relationships we have with ourselves and with others. By contrast, unhealthy sexuality typically involves a fearful approach that manifests as guilt, shame, control, avoidance, pain, or displeasure. Unhealthy sexuality often comes from the perspective that our bodies are somehow shameful and should be hidden and controlled.

Like our physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health, our sexuality is a normal and necessary part of the characteristics that make us unique. As with other parts of our personality, our sexuality must mature throughout our lifespan and be nurtured in ways that are appropriate to our age and context. We must learn what it means to be sexually vibrant and expressive in ways that are congruent with our individual sexual orientation, gender identification, and innate rhythms of sensual and erotic exploration.

Problems with sexuality can result from a multitude of sources. These sources can range from everyday circumstances, such as stress at work or conflicts in relationships, to more extreme problems stemming from traumatic events. For many individuals and couples, problems with sexuality can be a normal and even expected result of living in a complex world. For instance, though most couples experience an initial period of heightened sexual exploration and pleasure at the beginning of their relationship, it is not uncommon to see this pattern diminish or even deteriorate over time. Often this is not a function of trauma or illness, but rather a reflection of inattention to the maintenance of the couple’s sexual health. For other couples, the areas of sex and money become metaphors for unresolved power and control dynamics within their relationship. Addressing these underlying dynamics may provide resolution to the issues of power and control that are disguised as sexual problems.

Sexual problems can also arise from deeper issues. For example, early or current insults to our sexual identity formation, such as incest, rape, or sexual assault can instill a sense of fear or powerlessness around sexuality that can result in two major sexual disturbances. One of these disturbances is a withdrawal from sexuality as an authentic expression of the self, and the other is an over-identification with sexuality as a source of interpersonal power and control, rather than as a source of pleasure and intimacy. In either case, sexuality becomes a reaction to trauma rather than an unencumbered, delightful, and integrated expression of a well-developed sexual identity.

Another major obstacle to healthy sexuality is the impact of cultural bias and oppression, such as racism, sexism, ageism, sexist language, and homophobia. For example, many religious and cultural belief systems teach that the only purpose of sexuality is that of procreation. This eliminates the possibility of our sexuality being a source of pleasure in its own right. As a result, when sexual feelings do arise, we may feel a sense of guilt or shame. Religious and cultural belief systems can also be limiting in terms of definitions of “normal” sexuality and sexual orientations. When we fall outside of the culture’s definition of “normal” we may experience alienation, identity crises, depression or other emotional symptoms, and a sense of shame for being different.

Finally, problems with sexual functioning can be the result of physical illness or disease. Sexual problems can be related to the side effects of medications, the complications of medical treatments, or the impact of drug or alcohol abuse. In these situations it is important to consult with a qualified medical provider who will be able to identify whether the problem is physical or related to other issues.

In conclusion, if our sexual health and development are affected by environmental stressors, negative interpersonal patterns, trauma, or limiting cultural beliefs and biases, then we run the risk of developing unhealthy attitudes and behaviors about sexuality. These attitudes and behaviors are not set in stone. Everyone has the ability to make changes so that they may access the power and pleasure of healthy sexuality. The purpose of consulting with a therapist who specializes in human sexuality is to find support while you discover, clarify and expand your unique style of sexual expression.

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Up until fairly recently I also thought that it’s more important to be the best a man can be; a masculine role model of desire for women.

And, yes while that is important to have value to continue offering women, it’s not the most important thing initially (or at least in a physical relationship).

Many men will think that being more ‘macho’ will help them ‘get chicks’. Others think that having a nice car and throwing around money on expensive dinners will get them faster in the sack.

Yet this whole time, not only are they being ineffective in many ways, they’re still ignorant to women.

If men could understand women, they would have the cutting edge on how to (respectfully) seduce them.

We’re conditioned to be ignorant to the truth of women because their truth is behaviorally repressed. That’s why we all have problems with them and in forming new relationships.

But if you could see it and knew what her true sexuality was, you’d be way ahead of any competition despite your other weaknesses.

Why? Because it’s really about a woman and I don’t mean her inner or social development. I mean it’s about the one thing you couldn’t see yet.

And I’m not talking about maxi-pad’s, shopping, menstrual cycles or ANY of that. It’s up to a man alone to bring the secret of a woman out. Those are the men who end up sleeping with them.

Those are the men they let in.

Oh, you mean to be like a gay guy or metrosexual then? Nope.

You can be yourself and masculine AS YOU ARE and still succeed with women. They’re looking for men who aren’t afraid of them, who have the ability to raise their attraction response.

You don’t have to be an ‘alpha’ Stallone model of masculinity.

If we all had to be at that level, it wouldn’t be biological..everyone is born with the instinct to reproduce and find a mate (or more than one).

Sure their gay guy friends are able to talk to them about issues but it’s a guy like you who can fulfill her desires when you know the ’secret to women’.

So it’s not just about being the ‘best’ guy you can be (I improved myself over a decade and it didn’t have any direct effect on new relationships).

It’s about relational dynamics and having a grounded, proper model of female sexuality instead of the backwards ones we have now.

Yes, we’re missing a lot of male role models now in our mainstream media. It’s up to men to just kind of take that role themselves and ‘be’ the man that women want.

I’ve turned off the t.v. for the most part. I have a tremendous amount of power around other power. I see it for what it is and can immediately tell what kind of message or relationship
it’s trying to force me into.

I hope other men can stop being programmed into becoming more of a wuss, instead that they can take some time to step back and get real answers as I have found.

Answers of power and hope. It’s great to always be more of a man, but at the same time, understand women, their behavior and your relationship to all of it and your success with compound dramatically from where you used to be.

Go Alpha and cultivate cognition of TRUE female sexuality! I show you on my website.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

Learn how to be an alpha male who is comfortable in his own skin and succeeds with women and dating. Join the newsletter and get instant access to actually see the ’secret of women’ for yourself @ http://www.secretofwomen.com

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